Wednesday, December 9, 2009

The week of extremes: Birthdays to heart surgery

The past seven days has had the ultimate in extremes.   I don't really even know where to start, so I am going to just go in order.  Last Thursday, my sweet adorable Payton turned 5 years old!  I can not believe it!  How can he already be 5!!  He wanted a spongebob theme, so we made cupcakes for him to take to school.  Then after school some family came over and we celebrated his birthday with an ice cream cake!  He is VERY excited to be 5!  He will tell you all of the things he can do (or thinks he can do) now that he is 5!  He seems so grownup now.   Five is one of those big birthdays! This was the first year he had a 'friend' party.  His party was scheduled for Sunday (it was scheduled before we knew when Eastons surgery was).  So we spent a lot of time on Saturday preparing fo the party and getting all of the favors and such together.  His party with his friends was at a rec center and it was a lot of fun.  I think the kids really enjoyed themselves.  They got to color spongebob pictures, have cake, ice cream and juice boxes then go in the gym and run obstacle courses and just have lots of fun!  He had a great time turning 5 and thank you to so many people who made it so special. 

On Monday was the dreaded surgery for Easton.  In case you don't know, I will give a quick run down of the back story.  A little over a month and a half ago, I took him in to the doctor over the weekend for a minor ear infection.  They detected a heart murmer.  Which usually doesn't mean much and they are actually pretty common and most of the time means nothing.  We followed up with our pediatrician and he confirmed the murmer and also said that usually they are 'innocent' murmers that lots of people have.  He said though that we woudn't know unless we followed up with a pediatric cardiologist.  So, we did that and right away he knew that this was not nothing.  After a few hours and lots of tests later, it was confirmed that Easton had a congential heart defect called patent ductus arterious or PDA.  Basically there is an opening that is supposed to be open in a babys heart while they are in utero, and it is supposed to close after birth.  For some reason his did not.  It causes too much blood to flow through certain parts of the heart and causes extra stress on the heart and lungs.  His left side of his heart was already slightly enlarged and would continue to get larger without getting fixed.  If left untreated, he could have heart and lung failure.  So it had to get fixed sooner rather then later.  They scheduled the appt and we had to wait a month for the surgery.  It was a very long month and I am glad that i had Paytons birthday to focus on.  We had to keep Easton isolated from everyone for 4-5 days before surgery to make sure that he didn't get exposed to any germs or illinesses before surgery.  So he didn't get to leave the house or even go to Paytons party.  :-(

Monday was the surgery and it lasted a few hours.  He did great and the doctor was able to fix the defect via a catheter put in through the vein in his groin.  It was a long and stressful day, but we are very glad it is over.  They wanted to monitor him overnight and do some tests in the morning to make sure that the device they put in his heart stayed in place.  We were able to come home early Tuesday afternoon.  So now Easton and I are just hanging out at home the rest of the week.  I am so grateful that we have such a wonderfull Childrens Hospital here in KC.  They were truly wonderful.  And thank you to everyone who has been thinking of us over the past month or so.  I am overwhelved by the amount of calls, emails, cards, text messages, etc.  We are so lucky to have so many caring people in our lives. 

 

We are now looking forward to Christmas.  I haven't had a chance to think much about it yet, so I better hurry up and get on that!  Payton is very excited for Santa to come and thanks to a website I found, he received a personalized letter in the mail from Santa Claus!  He loves christmas lights and gets very excited to drive around and see them.  This will be an extra special Christmas this year now that Easton is here as well! 

I hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas and Happy New Year!

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